The rise of figures like Andrew Tate and the toxic online culture of the "manosphere" have left many parents wondering: How do I protect my son from these dangerous ideologies? The truth is, young boys are increasingly being targeted by influencers who package misogyny, entitlement, and aggression as empowerment. These messages spread through social media, gaming communities, and YouTube, making them difficult to monitor.

But there is hope. Here’s what parents can do to help their sons navigate this digital landscape without falling into the manosphere’s grip.

Understand the Appeal

Young boys often turn to the manosphere because it provides simple (but misleading) answers to complex problems. If they feel lonely, insecure, or frustrated, figures like Tate promise them power, success, and control. Recognizing why your son might be drawn to these figures is the first step in addressing the issue.

Talk Before They Do

If you’re not having open conversations about masculinity, respect, and relationships, someone else - possibly a YouTube algorithm - is doing it for you. Start these discussions early, making sure your son knows that feeling uncertain or struggling with self-worth is normal. Offer healthier role models and reinforce positive values.

Teach Digital Literacy 

Encourage critical thinking about the content they consume. Ask them: Who is this person? What do they gain by telling you this? Do they actually live the life they claim to? Help them understand that just because someone is confident and charismatic doesn’t mean they’re telling the truth.

Monitor Without Controlling

Banning your child from watching certain content outright may only make it more appealing. Instead, show interest in what they’re consuming. If they mention Tate or similar influencers, ask questions: What do you think about what he said? Do you think that applies to real life? Encourage discussions rather than shutting them down.

Encourage Healthy Male Role Models

Boys need strong, positive examples of masculinity. Encourage relationships with male mentors - coaches, teachers, or family members - who embody respect, empathy, and responsibility. Introduce them to creators, athletes, or entrepreneurs who promote hard work and success without belittling others.

Promote Offline Confidence

Boys who feel secure in real life are less likely to seek validation from toxic online communities. Encourage activities that build self-esteem - sports, arts, social groups, or volunteering. Help them find a sense of purpose that isn’t tied to the number of likes on a post.

Lead by Example

Children absorb more from what they see than what they’re told. Show respect in your own relationships, challenge sexist remarks when they arise, and model the kind of masculinity you’d want your son to adopt.

The manosphere thrives on isolation, anger, and fear. The best defense is connection. Be the person your son trusts enough to talk to when he’s confused or frustrated. That conversation might just be what steers him away from a path of resentment and toward a healthier, happier future.