Experts weigh in on how to keep your union united …
• Find meaning and purpose in your individual lives through activities, interests, and commitments you are passionate about.

• Don’t push your spouse to share your pleasures. Allow yourselves space to enjoy personal time and discover the plus side of being on your own.
• Focus on the quality of your time together, not the number of hours. Make time to talk – and only talk. No watching TV or fiddling with a BlackBerry.
• Don’t suffer in silence when a hobby starts upstaging your relationship. If you’ve become a golf widow, for instance, it’s important to let your partner know what you’re feeling.