Nataasha shares her answers on the tough 6 on Toughloveanswered today. Here’s what she had to say about love and relationships…

1. Your take on love?

Honestly, I think love is over-rated. Nowadays, the word 'love' is just thrown around pointlessly and most people are just convinced that they are in love when they are actually not or they just like the feeling of being in love. I have realized that love is just a rollercoaster of emotions and it takes so much of patience, kindness, understanding and trust which is easier said than done. The feeling of being loved has surprisingly made me happy, in spite of the few moments of anger and hurt which is a part of the whole experience.  So my take on love is that it comes around rarely so when you get the chance of being in love, grab it and put in all your effort. I don’t believe in destiny or meant to be’s, all I know is that you get what you work for and hold onto to the tiniest hope that the person will feel the same way about you.

2. What is the most important thing in a relationship?

Trust. No relationship can exist if you don’t trust the person.

3. What is something you think most guys need to work on?

Their egos. I mean seriously just keep your pride aside for a while and admit to how you really feel about something or someone and learn to give second chances.

4. What is the best relationship advice you have ever got?

“Don’t be afraid to be the one who loves the most”.

5. What is the best feature of a guy?

I think it’s the smile. My main weakness, when it comes to guys, is if he has an amazing smile.

6. What are your thoughts about spending the rest of your life with one person?

I doubt I could spend the rest of my life with one person, but I’m still young and immature and wouldn’t really know how it’s like. So far though I don’t think that really works out now.
By Hasna Saleem