Today we have Chase D taking on the ‘tough 6’. Here’s how he answered…

1. What is your definition of love?

Until you asked me that question I don’t think I have put so much thought into it – it’s such a hard thing to quantify… I think it would be how that person makes me feel like - safe, like I am on top of the world so to speak and this feeling of knowing that you want to be with that person no matter what happens through thick and thin.

2. What is the most important thing in a relationship?

Communication undoubtedly is one of the most important things in a relationship, it’s through communication you establish the other important thing – trust. I have been in relationships where communication has failed and things have fallen apart to ones where there has been proper OPEN communication where you say what is on your mind even if it might hurt the partner because that helps build the relationship sometimes without you realizing it.

3. What do you notice first in a girl?

Hair. That’s the first thing I notice, well maintained natural hair certainly catches my attention. I’m not too fond of girls that re-bond their hair. You should flaunt what comes naturally. That would be followed by the eyes.

4. What's the most beautiful feature of a girl?

It would be the smile – a beautiful smile would make any man’s day no matter how bad the day may have been. As per a feature in personality it is having confidence that is a total turn on.

5. What is something girls need to work on (what turns you off)?

Hmmm… there’s quite a few… being indecisive – where the girl is caught in two minds and not know what she wants, taking the “chase” too far - you simply lose interest sooner or later (in my case sooner), being immature when it comes to handling issues or situations.

6. Thoughts on 'clingy' partners?

Something that differs from person to person but I don’t like clingy, this is where you start to lose personal space. I don’t like being constantly hailed on the phone or be antisocial at a public gathering because my partner refuses to let me leave her side. After a while it becomes suffocating where you don’t seem to be living your life – it is all downhill from there.

By Hasna Saleem
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