The amount of women who have admitted to faking an orgasm in their life is a staggering 64%, that’s a bit more than half of the women you took into bed, a little more than half the times you took them into bed.

 

That makes the top 5 list of worrying statistics I’ve read about, right behind the chances of my developing brain cancer and dying in an air plane.

 

The thing is that a woman’s orgasm isn’t a sure thing in any way and to make matters worse they also happen to be multi orgasmic which is worse; not only is it difficult to give her an orgasm, it’s also impossible to tell if you gave her one. 

 

Women have over the years started faking orgasms for one reason and one only, satisfying a woman in bed is tied up real close to the pillars of a man’s self esteem; so much so that the inability to satisfy a woman in bed is the most damaging to a man’s ego out of a list of stressing situations like losing a job. The only silver lining is that there are ways to tell if you got your lady over the cliff and asking her isn’t one of them.

 

 

Contractions

 

An orgasm is a really tense experience and the effects of an orgasm are as involuntary as shivering when it’s chilly. A sure fire way to gauge if you really gave her an orgasm is to be attentive to her vaginal contractions, if she really did get where you wanted her to go, there will be light contractions in her vaginal walls for a matter of seconds, so pay attention.

 

 

Shifting eyes

 

Understandably this isn’t something you will notice in too many of the positions but one of the best tells of an orgasm is the momentary disorientation of her eyes.

 

What to look for is the same thing you see in someone who is falling asleep at a work desk, this particular characteristic of an orgasm lends itself to the belief that sexual climax is the highest spiritual experience attainable and that you connect with your soul at the moment of attaining an orgasm.

 

 

Royal flush

 

This is more noticeable in a fairer girl but nevertheless if you really bother to look or keep the bedside lights on it shouldn’t be too hard to notice.

 

The flush to look for is the colour change in her skin caused by the increased blood circulation, aside from being an excellent tell of her orgasm it’s also a good way to know if shes’ aroused. 

 

 

Shallow

 

Shallow and often choppy breathing is a good indicator that shes well on her way to climaxing, this is also the point at which you shouldn’t change anything you’re doing. The short bursts of breath are caused by the rapid increase of blood pressure which in turn causes her to orgsm convincingly.

 

Another excellent giveaway that she’s having a good time is when her nipples harden, if your girlfriend has perpetually hard nipples well this might not be a good way to judge but for the rest of you it’s a good way to tell that she’s happy with the ride.  

 

 

 

 

 

By Dilshan Senaratne