Today, Siyath answers the important 6..

What is your definition of love?

Growing up my perspective towards love has changed drastically. As a kid it was influenced by parents; in my teen years, it was from what I saw in friends; however as a college student now I believe love is about believing  in someone and inspiring him/her to pursue the greater good. A person who truly loves you is a person who will always be there for you even when you've lost faith in yourself.

What is the most important thing in a relationship?

If you can open yourself up to your partner, and be accepted by him/her for who you are I think that's the most important thing. Though you're the greatest entrepreneur of the world, if it doesn't really matter to your significant other, the relationship won't last. So it's vital that you be charismatically naked, and still be attracted towards each other.

What do you notice first in a girl?

How a girl presents herself. It says a lot about her personality. Whether she's pompous, outgoing, friendly or would she be ideal to be the mother to your children can be read through the way she carries herself.

What's the most beautiful feature in a girl?

Her dignity. Girls, specially in the local context put a lot of effort into maintaining their dignity. I think this is not a feature which many guys appreciate in a girls, but deserves attention. It's simply beautiful when someone carefully crafts her dignity over time.

What is something girls need to work on?

Being genuine in complimenting each other. I think a honest compliment carries a long way than an overly nice one. And it's such a turn off when someone is trying to nice with fake compliments. For an example, if a girl is fat calling her thin is obviously not true; but there can be so many other beautiful features in her you can compliment about. After all you're not fooling anyone with your fake compliments.

Thoughts on clingy partners?

I think that 'clingy' applies to a partner when the person merges his/her life with the romantic relationship.While sharing your life with your partner is great, you must maintain your self interests outside of your relationship. Clinging to someone is a surefire way of making your partner lose interest in the relationship.

By Hasna Saleem